Co-Parenting

Co-Parenting:

When you sleep with someone and it results in a pregnancy ...both of you are responsible.  Men and women deciding to become parents even if you don't love one another, even if that's not your boyfriend/girlfriend...understand...that should not get in the way of raising a beautiful, healthy child who will contribute positively to society.  These are decisions that you made willingly...remember that!!!

Men...when a woman tells you she is pregnant and you know you've been smashing without any protection...stop acting all crazy...prepare your mind and communicate with the woman.  That is not to time to revert back into a lil boy.  You had an option to put on a condom, it's your dick...wrap it up!!! Even if she's not your girl or just some girl you had sex with for the first time and only one time...stop acting like you don't understand how things go down. Discuss your options and get a clear understanding of how the three of you are going forward.

Women: when you get pregnant by a man who you are just sleeping with and you guys are not in a relationship...stop romanticizing it....because the truth of the matter is that...you guys had sex and now you're pregnant...NOT...you guys had sex, you got pregnant and now you are a couple.  Communicate with this man so that he can be there with you through the pregnancy, delivery and the rest of the child's life.  Don't make it difficult for a man to be a father just because that man isn't your man.  Do you feel me?

As a child grows up whether you are with their mother or not, if you make a child feel love, care and support them as you should your relationship will be as it should.  A child will never forget how you treated their mother...and they will never respect you as a man if you are disrespectful to their mother.  You don't have to be together, you don't have to act as though you are all in love...if that is not the case...but as an adult, you should be mature enough to foster a positive relationship with the person who you gave your body to.  Get over yourself...
SMH...

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